Reality

I have always enjoyed writing. In high school, I loved when a teacher wanted you to just journal about your summer or write a page on something you read in class. I love writing. I can say whatever I want on paper and I guess that’s what I like most about this blog. It’s mine and no one else’s. No one can tell me what to write about and even though you could be doing it right now, I don’t have to hear anyone critique what I’m blogging. It’s all my own and no one can stop me.


After all, life isn’t about impressing people, how many pictures of you are on Facebook, or how many friends you make through high school. It’s about the dreams you aspire to make real and the people who support you the whole way through. The ones that really care about you will always be there. They’ll be there on your wedding day. The best ones will be your bridesmaids! It has been very hard for me the past year to acknowledge things that were visibly there all along, yet I just chose not to see them. At times, I wish I had been more alert to the situations but then again, I made it through and I have a good name at the end of the day with nothing to worry about. I never have cared too much of people’s harsh opinions, however, I want people to realize that I am a good person.

There are reasons that people are in your life and why they leave your life. I just hope that if you are reading this, and you have a big group of friends, you don’t become too oblivious to the fact that people are and will be fake. You think you really know someone and you chose to believe that they are very sweet, innocently polite people. 78.5% aren’t. Your true friends will be there for you no matter what and the others, they were only a memory in a few of your high school pictures. Some only care about themselves, and at the end of the day, you were better off letting them go their own way. They were only your friend because you were in the same click or you just sat by them in class not even by choice. Not that everyone is fake, but reality is, life is hard and people are cruel. Might as well prepare for it early.

Another Kind of Lost

Forget Formspring and Facebook for a day! If you're like me, you like to read but have hardly any time to! I love getting lost in a great book but it has to be really good!

So, even though the snow is melting away, here are some of my favorites that you're sure to love!

The cover says it all. I am SO glad that Mama E assigned this as our last book to read of Junior year. Anyone who's into a deep meaningful read, this is screaming your name! Hands down, my favorite book! This old man will win your heart and leave you wanting to read this book over and over, which I have twice! I want to share the wisdom of Morrie Schwartz to the world!

Morrie Schwartz is Mitch Albom's college professor. Maybe you're like Mitch. Maybe you lost track of a mentor as you made your way through the world. Wouldn't you like to see that person again, ask the bigger questions that still haunt you, receive wisdom for your busy life today the way you once did when you were younger? Mitch Albom had the second chance. He rediscovered Morrie in the last months of the the older man's life. Knowing he was dying, Mitch visited Morrie every Tuesday, just as they used to in college. Their rekindled relationship turned into one final "class": lessons in how to live.

Okay, I admit, Mama E made us read this. She made us read a lot of books! But this one, was really good! The story of the fabulously wealthy Jay Gatsby and his love for the beautiful Daisy Buchanan, of lavish parties on Long Island at a time when "gin was the national drink and sex the national obsession". It's based within the 1920s. So next time Mrs. Esslinger talks about her next assignment, try not to groan before you think!

My favorite everyday book!









These are my must see movies! I have currently seen some of these and some of these are oldies but I love passing along a good movie because not everyone likes to read! So, go out and hit the redbox!


In her early thirties, Elizabeth Gilbert (played by the wonderful Julia Roberts) had everything a modern American woman was supposed to want - husband, country home, successful career - but instead of feeling happy and fulfilled, she felt consumed by panic and confusion. This wise and rapturous story unfolds of how she left behind all these outward marks of success, and of what she found in their place. Following a divorce and a crushing depression, Gilbert set out to examine three different aspects of her nature, set against the backdrop of three different cultures: pleasure in Italy, devotion in India, and on the Indonesian island of Bali, a balance between worldly enjoyment and divine transcendence.



This is a romantic comedy. Two women played by Kate Winslet and Cameron Diaz, live 6,000 miles away and are total strangers. They both are unhappy with their lives, trade homes (from sunny California to snow covered English countryside) only to find that a change of address can change their lives. Winslet falls in love with a man who is about to marry another woman. Diaz, across the globe, realizes the man she lives with has been unfaithful. The two women find themselves in the exact same place. Diaz falls in love with the lovely Graham (Jude Law), which is worth the entire movie! ;) Winslet finds herself a new romance in Jack Black. Definitely, a must see.

Although an oldie, definitely on my top list. Mariah Carey plays a talented young singer, Billie Frank, struggling to make it big in New York City. She has tremendous will and determination along with a voice like an angel. With the help of a handsome nightclub DJ, she quickly learns that the roller coaster ride to success is as treacherous as it is glamorous. This is one that I can watch over and over!

Carrie Bradshaw. Samantha Jones. Charlotte York. Miranda Hobbes.

I think we all recognize these four rich city gals.

Most of us can only dream of their lifestyle.

FYI: I will have Carrie Bradshaw's closet from this movie!

To save the best for last!

My favorite actress, Katherine Heigl and my favorite actor, Gerard Butler come together to collaborate the most hilarious romantic comedy I have ever seen. This wildly funny battle of the sexes is sure to knock you off your feet. Abby, a successful morning show producer, is looking for a lot in a man. Mike, her obnoxious TV star, knows men only want one thing. Determined to prove that she's not romantically challenged, Abby takes Mike's advice during a promising new romance, but the unexpected results will stun everyone.

Alone with God

This past week as we all have been snowed in, I have had plenty of time to think about what to write about next. I am so happy that so many have tuned in to see what my next topic will be about!

Thanks for reading! I really appreciate it!

Since I have had all this time, my mind has been everywhere from new websites I'd like to share, to the most interesting person of the week, to my weekly devotionals. All are sure to come! :)

Today's subject: His solitude with Us.

When God gets us alone through suffering, heartbreak, temptation, disappointment, sickness, or by desires, a broken friendship, or a new friendship, - when He gets us absolutely alone, and we are totally speechless, able to ask even one question, then He begins to teach us.

As you journey with God, the only thing He intends to be clear is the way He deals with your soul. The sorrows and difficulties in the lives of others will be absolutely confusing to you. We think we understand another person's struggle until God reveals the same shortcomings in our lives. There are vast areas of stubbornness and ignorance the Holy Spirit has to reveal in each of us, but it can only be done when Jesus gets us alone.

Are we alone with him now? Or are we more concerned with our own ideas, friendships, and cares for our bodies? Jesus cannot teach us anything until we quiet all our intellectual questions and get alone with Him.

My challenge to you. Pray.

Pray when you wake up.

Pray when you get in the car.

Pray when you get to work or school.

Pray in the classroom.

Pray when you eat.

Pray when you're driving.

Pray when you get home.

Pray.

Because there can never be enough prayer.

Style Stealer

I find it hilarious when people make a big deal out of how a celebrity accidentally/intentionally wears the same outfit as another celebrity. Personally, I think they should give them a break. There are only so many designers out there! After all, they are ordinary people just like us. Add a little Botox, personal stylists, and a million dollar closet and

BAM! You have your everyday gal!

Who doesn’t love “Who wore it better” polls!?

I am seriously in love with this concept. Here are my choices!

I have to go with Carrie! She is so elegant! Not too much cleavage, and her shoes are a plus!!

Maybe it's the paler skin but Eva has it!

Sorry Nicki, but this H&M Peacock dress looks fabulous on Katy!

Such pretty colors!

Jessica's boots seal the deal!
Such a neatly designed dress!


Audrina Patridge, you are gorgeous!
I love the shoes!

Hands down, Miley wears Marchesa's black and

gold sequin dress marvelously!

Jay Manuel knows what top model material is with his

oh-so-in bow tie!

Fact: Lo Bosworth looks great in anything she wears!
Such a cute dress!

Doesn't a Kardashian always win?

Zooey Deschanel definitely wears this dress better! Too cute!



Coincidence that one celebrity wears the same outfit

as another celebrity? I'll leave that up to you!

One Step at A Time

From wedding dresses, Christmas lists, Valentine’s Day ideas and bikini shopping, I have had a lot of random things on my mind lately. I swear that I am so ADD, I have officially diagnosed myself!

Christmas break has been fun but, even though I always complain during the semester of having so much homework and stuff to do, I am ready for school to start back.

It all means one step closer to finishing the semester,

one step closer to getting my RN,

one step closer to getting married,

one step closer to....

You guessed it! Children!! :)

I absolutely cannot wait! I have always dreamed of having girls but I have discovered my fondness of little boy’s clothing. When I was little, my Mom dressed me up all of the time and I loved every second of it! She had a bow in my hair to coordinate with every outfit and I never seemed to care! As I got older, I wanted to play basketball but I was never as tom-boyish as my little sister is.

When I grew up, people didn’t dress their kids up in Vineyard Vines or Lilly Pulitzer yet.

We had Kelly’s Kids. Everything monogrammed. Smock gowns and over-sized hair bows and I was good to go!

I know that my kids will look so adorable in their Lilly and VV but, like it or not, I will take advantage of the time that I can squeeze in all of their monogrammed dresses, bloomers, and head attire while they are young enough to let me.

http://www.kellyskids.com

I Do, In Style ;)

Even though I'm not getting married next week, I cannot

help my obession of googling the cutest little houses in the

neighborhood for sale, checking salaries for RN jobs within

the next year in Huntsville, and yes. Wedding dress shopping.

Very. Addicting.

Until I started looking at every magazine that exists on weddings,

I only figured there were a few types of materials and designs to chose from.

BOY was I wrong! One can only dream of the perfect dress. I don't mind

David's Bridal. Although having nothing wrong with it, it just seems like the

"average" Honda to the BMW. We're talking, Vera Wang. A.k.a. the QUEEN

of wedding fashion, has captured my eye everywhere and has captivated me

into only wishing for one of her most elegant pieces! As a little girl, I always

loved the sleek and flowy dresses rather than a "Cinderella" ballroom

gown that stuck out twenty feet on each side. Even though we're not

engaged yet, I cannot help but be drawn to the epic decision of what dress

I will wear. I mean, it is the BIG DAY! Everyone that I cherish most

will be there and I have one chance to get it right. No pressure or anything.

All eyes are on the bride as she marches in, so needless to say.

I'm only a little stressed :)

So, in early pre-preparation, I wanted to share with you my season's favorites

of Vera Wang. Everyone has their style from strapless to one shoulder, halter or

V back, bow or no bow, white, red, cream, black.... To each is own!

I have never said "Oh my God" and "Holy Crap" so many

times in 30 minutes looking at Vera's website.

They. are. to. die. for.

Meet Lana.

Ivory silk georgetter draped sheath with silk faille

knot detail at empire bust

Meet Helene.

Light ivory stretch mikada mermaid gown

Meet Tatiana.

Dove draped duchess gown satin with tulle skirt

Meet Fairy Dust.

Ivory allover plisse organdy gown with thick

lavender grosgrain sash

Meet Erin.

Strapless tissue organze ballgown with soft

asymmetrically tucked layered skirt with horsehair

trim, and flower corsage at natural waist

Meet Vera.

The woman who started it all.

Happy Holidays!

I can’t help but wonder what everyone’s traditions and customs are as the holidays roll along. Thanksgiving was filled with lots of food and family. Christmas was none-the-less one of the many reasons that it is The Most Wonderful Time of the Year! It seems everyone is stuck on what they want for Christmas and receiving that perfect gift, but I have been thinking and have come up with my “Rest of the Year List” (post-Christmas)
Enjoy!

Michael Kors flats

Pandora Silver Ring, Green Amethyst

A great Valentine's Day Idea, TLG ;)

Flower Hour One Shoulder Navy Blue Dress

from Lulu's

Lilly's Anders Dress